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I heard that the Rebbe once said, “If one did not have trust in God and wait for His salvation, one would have to become a traveler and a wanderer, just like many people do for their livelihood.”

The Rebbe was speaking of those who must support a family. In most cases, they do not have an adequate livelihood. They often lack clothing and other necessities.

One person may lack a simple garment. Others may lack fine clothing and mansions.

We must wait for God’s help and not press the hour ( Eruvin 13b) . Do not try to take care of all your needs at once, but wait until God shows His mercy.

The Rebbe said about himself, “If I did not have patience when I needed something, if I would have pressed the hour and demanded it immediately, I would have had to borrow money and become a debtor. I would then be forced to wander and travel, trying to earn money. I would be just like the many others who are forced to go from place to place because of this.”

Realize this and live accordingly. Every man has much that he lacks, including householders and even the rich. This is tru too of those who are supported by others. It is best to be satisfied with a minimum and run your household with what you have at the time.

It may appear to you that your wife and children need clothing, for example (see “ His Wisdom ” #100) . They may need it very badly, but still, do not force the hour and go into debt.. Wait until the right time comes and you can pay for your needs.

It is better to endure privation than to fall into debt. This is true even regarding food. How much more does it apply to clothing and housing.

It is better to be in debt to yourself than to the storekeeper. It is better to be in debt to your family and owe them the clothing.

In all such matters, you must wait for the proper time. It is written, “The eyes of all look to You, and You give them their food in its time” (Psalms 145:15) .